HB, Funny I never felt a doormat per-say before his MLC.
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[/quote]OW is NOT your problem, she IS HIS..therefore his responsibility. BUT, you CAN make it perfectly clear you will NOT tolerate the presence of OW...he will either pull it together or walk, his choice.[quote]
I told H this very thing after the last discussion re/OW and I will be upholding what I said. The rest is up to him.
I have accepted my part in this. I am no longer letting him take advantage. I won't control him but I will let him know what I feel to be a deal breaker and act on it. I did quit letting him walk all over me getting his way just to keep peace after his MLC came out but, I had been an idiot to think that because he said he wanted the M that that would be all that mattered and that he would just miraculously not feel for her any longer and not try to keep crossing that boundary either. That was just wishful thinking on my part.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
