My H ran up a couple of credit cards...which we both did during our separation...basically just trying to survive. Not too much unnessary spending on my part, but maybe a little bit on H.
Yes, an allowance! I love it! He sat down and figured out how much spending he does and its ridiculas! SO, he decided to hand over funds to me...figured out how much he needs to get things like gas, food, cigs, sodas...things like that. Which when he saw how much he spends on it all, he has decided to cut back....quitting smoking would be nice, but I doubt that will happen anytime soon.
Trusting Faith....Im not sure if I have worked through hurts/feelings yet. I try not to dwell on it too much. I dont know if that will hurt me or help me yet. Im thinking I just need to make sure we are on a good track back before I talk about it too much with him. Maybe down the road I will deal with it, but for now, Im dealing with the reconciling part, thats hard enough
Every now and then when I pass the house of someone he was talked about having an affair with (which he denied), I do let my self dwell on it, but then try to think about somthing else. We all make mistakes and sometimes hurt those we love, that is the only thing that helps me sometimes.
Last edited by kissak; 05/05/1004:28 PM.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
