still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

ok here is another q- sorry to be post crazy, just going through anxiety of course.

how do I handle the whole landlord issue? Suppose my prediction is right and while he has Wednesdays off from work (for the next month or so), he will be trying to come back to the house earlier than 2 in order to do yardwork? Do I tell him sorry, Saturday works better (example) so that S and I can be gone while you are here?

Or do I just allow it and take S with me to go somewhere?

On the one hand, he will be returning to a 5 day work schedule soon. So what is the harm- could there be benefits to him coming over here for the limited time (a lot less than it was!!! A LOT)

On the other hand, will it put a wrench in my LRT approach and diminish the effect of him being forced to be alone with S on Wednesday, at OW's place (because he used to hang out with S over here- and she is at work anywhere so it would be her empty house)?

Please respond anyone!! Thank you in advance!