If you think your H is in a MLC start a thread on that board. Try to stick to one thread and one board for the future. There are resources at the top of the MLC board to read to see if you think he is in MLC. Confusion, however is a sign of MLC. It does sound like your H is confused.

You need to start with detachment.
This is the detach link:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

Good luck keep reading and posting.

Knowledge is power.

Me-70, D37,S36