one more thing- do you think that this new arrangement is increasing my WH's respect for me? I mean I purposely chose to let him "cake eat" for the sake of DBing (without affection or LM of course). And now I am saying he can't hang out here or converse about S via text (he used to check in every day).
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004