still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Laura please explain a little more about GALing too much and the male attention issue....

I do appreciate your input and am nervous about navigating the dating scene. I see that most of the women who have been in my position don't date (due to moral reasons and I think maybe they are afraid it would push their WS away? and maybe aren't ready)

I do have a fear that if WS confirmed that I was dating (although I haven't started yet) it would push him faster to D.

At the same time, wise men on here (Robx is only one but is an example) swear that dating is good for the LBS and creates a pulling effect from the WAS.

I do realize there are other ways to fill one's life and am looking into other meetup groups for various activities.