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I agree with you about her actions being her own. But my oldest son was so embarassed by the pic. She should be thinking about him as well don't you think?


That would be the proper thing. But people make mistakes, and you need to let her make her own mistakes and not worry about them or try to "save her from her own mistakes". That is just controlling behavior (despite the good intentions).

I should probably add that you should be there for your son and only go so far as saying you understand how he feels (but do not criticize his mother).

Last edited by TimeHeals; 05/05/10 03:33 PM.

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