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i don't want her to tarnish her own reputation in this small town. Especially since i do want us to get back together some day.


It doesn't matter what you want. Part of healthy detachment is letting people live their own lives, make their own mistakes, and dealth with the conequences without you feeling like you need to rescue or help them.

Let it go. You are trying to control something you cannot control.

I can understand why you might even be embarrassed if you think of her as a reflection on you, but you have to let that go too. Her actions are only something she can control, and they are no reflection on you. Your actions reflect on you.

Last edited by TimeHeals; 05/05/10 03:14 PM.
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