Its over according to her. Rollercoaster continue

[ninelives]

New Update:

She posted a new pic on facebook, one that shows her bare back and her tatoo. I simply commented a previous message with
"nice tat"

She was very upset with that and when we talked about the kids later that day she said, " I dont appreciate your sarcastic remarks about my profile pic" I said " take it as you will, i just said nice tat"

When I saw my s14 later that day, he said he was embarassed by the profile as she has some of his friends and my s10's friends as her friends. So they can see her bare back with a tat.

When we talked today ( about the kids) I did say " BTW, do you think its a good idea to have your bare back as your profile pic for your kids friends to see, Remember , you are a mother first"

She said, " she had already taken it off and that she didn't see it as a big deal as she is proud of her tat"

I said " just think of your kids first and i am not here to lecture you but what are you thinking"

She is having tremendous arguments with her mother now and are saying nasty things to each other and my w even overturned a table in her rage. I made a comment that she should try and stay calm with her mom until she moves into her house on May 30th.

I even made a comment that she is my ex wife and she quickly said , " I am still your wife" But she is really not acting like it at all. I am worried about her especially for my kids.

She will never hurt them on purpose but i don't want her to tarnish her own reputation in this small town. Especially since i do want us to get back together some day. Why? I don't know for sure but the good person I married is still in there somewhere but is hurting so much that she continues to make bad choices.

Thoughst?