1000 feet above the runway (ILS2)

[Cadet]

I finished the Conway book.

I will leave one more part of this for everyone's thoughts.
And I am paraphrasing this:

"Marriage Problems

1) Preoccupation with the process of living.
Raising kids, paying mortgage and accumulating things.
2) Lack of communication and intimacy.
The couple is not sharing the things that make them happy or causes them to be uneasy.
3) Unmet personal needs.
A man say I'm in love with you - What he really means is You meet my needs and make me happy.
People that have fallen out of love are really reporting that their needs are no longer being met. They are unable to verbalize to the other person that they have needs that are not being met. They simply say I don't love you anymore.
4) A lack of personal growth.
Old problems from adolescence.
Boredom with marriage."

There are many other good things from the book but I won't ruin it for those of you that have not read it.

Knowledge is always power, and we can never gain enough knowledge. It, in turn, increases our understanding.

I continue my quest, on to the next book.