Is it stupid to give up cell phone viewing rights?

[Geomom]

amg, that's exactly it: I'm always looking for "one more thing." Sometimes, though, you DO actually find a bit that you'd missed before, as I have by going through H's FB photo and OW's Website. So even though it's sort of torture, it can also be productive.

I didn't realize before this all blew up on me how much of a red flag H's obsessive Blackberry use was. He'd always been busy on the phone because of his work, though he now has an assistant to handle calls on weekends or if he's in meetings or at lunch. But he's been attached to that thing for a while now, obsessively checking emails, texts and Facebook posts.

I know what you mean: if you can't ask simple questions without getting an honest response, you're obviously the only one interested in working on the M right now. Think your impulse is the right one.