In my opinion if your WS is showing doubt or REMORSE its BEST to NOT show happiness... it will reassure them their doubts are unfounded...
If the WS is showing NO remorse and just ANGER, I think its best to act warmly around them in the hope they find the warmth attractive because it softens the anger in them.
mb28`s husband isn`t showing anger, just some doubt... so I reccomend AVOIDING anything that may reassure him he`s making a healthy choice... Her showing happiness I think is just going to lead him to think he`s doing the `right thing`... which he`s not... its all about communicating with action really.. what do you think its best to communicate to him and how do you do itÉ