DaddyLongShanks, you are thinking as a LBS. Her H is the WAS and she was pursuing him. That is a no-no in DBing. The more she pursued, the worse he acted. She needs to give him breathing room. They do not live together. She does not need to try to get him to date her! You can't make memories with a person who acts as if they desipse you! You leave them alone.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
