If I was a woman, there would be a lot more outrage at her than at me.
Sorry man...I promise you I feel no outrage toward your actions. She did one of the worst things you can do in a M. I got enough religion in me to know that when God talks about it, it ain't no simple thing. Do do it once on one night is something I'd have problems with - she's got a lot more invested than that.
I promise you LSG, I only mean to question things that don't make a better relationship. Those questions aren't a judgement, just a reminder that you came here looking for options and some hope. When I write, I sometimes notice my own fault, so I guess I'm a bit selfish because I hope to help myself by possibly helping another. I just hope I don't hurt too much in the process of trying to help - sorry if you felt condescention (sp?).
I figure with Luvless, TTA, and others all struggling along with me, despair is getting to me and letting lose some harsh words. I don't believe a "2x4" of insults is the way to wake anyone up. Again, sorry about that.