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happynow #1995725 05/04/10 08:02 PM
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CW,

Your husband was mainly digging for information on what the kids thought of OW, and you handled that just fine.

If he wants to know what the kids think, he can ask THEM, not YOU.

The other questions asked were actually camouflage(sp?) for that question...THINK I spelled that right, LOL!!

Do not answer in any length anything he wants to know...be cryptic, short and to the point.

He's DIGGING, and has left his shovel at home, LOL!! I think you've still got that little item, don't you? smile
If you do, you need to hit him in the HEAD with it, might knock some sense into him. LOL!!

They really think the LBS is so very stupid that they wouldn't know what the MLC'er is up to...they find out otherwise later on. smile

No one is stupid but the MLC'er!!

Have a good one. smile


Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
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CW,

Heartsblessing is right on it!

(((HUGS)))

happynow #1995925 05/05/10 12:25 AM
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Hi HB and nlt....

I figured that and am glad I answered the way I did!

I am usually a wordy talker so am getting better!

Crazy day today...went to Jazzercise at 5:45 am, then home to get kids off to school, me off to work, had double booked my first appt., then off to pick up son for ortho and then on the the big city for plastic surgeon check-up and was about 2 mins for his office and they call saying that he was called to emergency surgery and would I re-schedule???? I told them no, I was 2 mins away after driving an hour and rearranging my work schedule to come on the day the Dr sees patients and she said the PA would see me when I got there! Now that, is something I might not have done a few months ago...I probably would have just said ok...

Tomorrow morning, if I can move after the exercise, I am headed to see a motivational speaker, at 9am and then will work until 8pm tomorrow!!! It is going to be one of those weeks!


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WOW CW, way to GAL! Good for you!

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CW - I'm impressed with your GALs. You go girl!!! Plastic surgery as GAL...hmmm something to think about. I could use some improvements at my age...unfortunately can't afford it now.


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Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Mila #1996164 05/05/10 12:03 PM
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Hi SA and Mila-

Oh...better clarify...I am not having plastic surgery...just a check up on my reconstruction!


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CW right on for saying "no" to the rescheduling! And look- there was an alternative-meaning I might have thought there was no other option but to reschedule! Assertiveness pays off.

How is jazzercise? Can you keep up with all the moves? And what is the topic for the inpsirational speaker?

How are you feeling?


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Quote:
Oh...better clarify...I am not having plastic surgery...just a check up on my reconstruction!


Oh, OK...hope everything is OK with that


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WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
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Hi NM...jazzercise is going ok...we laugh a lot! There are some moves that I have not figured out yet and am sure by the time I do, they will change the routine!

Mila-all is well witht he reocntstruction...just a check up!

I had someone else ask me today if I am ok, healthwise, because of my weight loss! Funny!

Moitvational speaker today was Dr Lewis Lasconcy (not sure if I spelled his name correctly). Unfortunately, the time had gotten changed and we were not informed so we were an hour early and had to leave an hour early as we all had clients waiting for us. Got a signed book and can't wait to read it! I hated it that we missed the last half!

Oh, on the way there, I had a cup of coffee between my legs and the girl that was driving took off quick at the stop sign and it spilled in my crotch and of course I was wearing white capris! We all laughed about it and I carried my friends purse in front of me the rest of the morning...my purse was too small to cover it! lol!


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CW - glad that you are OK healthwise smile

That coffee incident made me laugh...sorry I'm sure that it wasn't that funny at the time...but thanks for making me laugh anyway lol


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
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