When some of us add MLC into the mix, it gets even more confusing. I think the MLer/WS needs more of a lifeline but also the threat of losing it. The boundary is the same but maybe fuzzier thus wider.
In a convo with H last week, I mentioned how sad and lost he seemed. He said he was depressed. Was I? I replied no. He asked if I was happy. I said no, not that either...just living life as it came. Wish I had a cheat sheet with me!! I feel like I need a cramming session before I see him!!!!
Disclaimer: I am still trying to figure out "How to be" when forced to have contact w/h. Otherwise, NC works best for me.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
