Dont think back on the issues that couldve been prevented, i know it can eat you up inside, I try my hardest to dismiss those thoughts! And NO, they are not reasons why you two are apart. And not reasons why you cant ever be together! He did fall in love with you once...
I totally agree--it will hit you one day (if it hasn't already) that the reason why your H is doing this is because of something wrong in your H's thinking, NOT YOU! Yes, you may have had your faults but didn't HE also? He knows that deep down! Everyone has their faults! We do search for an explanation, shouldawouldacoulda...and it doesn't hurt to do some self improvement but they did this because of their own issues. Honestly.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
