My WAW - Chat/Text Msg affair with her ex

[Dan1977]

You are right Puppy, I will go see a lawyer for good measure...AND concentrate on improving my marriage. I just don't want to focus my efforts on trying to screw my wife over in some nasty divorce, and lose sight of saving my marriage. But you are correct, they are unrelated and I should do both. Thanks

Another good day between me and my wife...but still texting going on between her and OM. I'm not saying anything to her about it because it has blew up in my face everytime before. Maybe if I can manage to keep my mouth shut, she will eventually lose interest in this a$$hole and come home to stay. Our relationship seems to be improving even though I know what's going on behind the scenes. She was shopping for sexy lingerie for our vacation that seems to be full steam ahead again, so I guess in my mind that is a positive. She has been flirting with me more lately and making little comments here and there with sexual undertones, which seems like the way things used to be. Maybe this is a sign of recovery between us, because before she totally was not doing any of the flirty stuff like she is now. I hope I'm not being setup again!! I don't know what effect it's going to have, but my hope is when we take our vacation to Jamaica to the resort we were married (it's called Couples Swept Away by the way if anyone is looking for an absolute fantastic get away) she will realize how I feel about her and her marriage is worth saving and we can grow together again. My fingers are crossed, but in the back of my mind I'm waiting for something bad to happen knowing she's still texting OM on her prepaid phone.

Dan