Gatsby,
i think its great that you are recongnizing what you could work on. I think its a huge step! now that you know about it, work on it for you and become the best you ever!!! I know that I am taking this time to learn to not use mean words when I argue or to talk over H, and let him communicate more. We all are learning alot from our experiences

Piecing has to be so hard... but who said M was a piece of cake... or separation for that matter! That;s why if you work on you now, you will be strong enough to piece your M together confidently! We all have to take this opportunity to work on ourselves...

Dont think back on the issues that couldve been prevented, i know it can eat you up inside, I try my hardest to dismiss those thoughts! And NO, they are not reasons why you two are apart. And not reasons why you cant ever be together! He did fall in love with you once...