She got too drunk the night before and was too hungover to go to the zoo. I went out with friends instead and then her and I got dinner that night.
It was... Predictable. We have a good time together but shes still cold and distant and I really am on the verge of losing any bit of hope I have for us.
I am just really starting to get the impression that she is "done" and completely closed off to even considering reconciliation. I know feelings change, and I shouldn't take everything she says right now as fact, but it's tough to stay positive, or even to tell myself to not give up right now.
It's been 4 months and every time I start to see some progress it is immediately followed by total regression.
I know, none of this is unique, and I know Rob warned me of this.
I think the most unpredictable thing I can do right now is to just go away...
I am just really starting to get the impression that she is "done" and completely closed off to even considering reconciliation. I know feelings change, and I shouldn't take everything she says right now as fact, but it's tough to stay positive, or even to tell myself to not give up right now.
It's been 4 months and every time I start to see some progress it is immediately followed by total regression.
I know, none of this is unique, and I know Rob warned me of this.
I think the most unpredictable thing I can do right now is to just go away...
Hey buddy I understand totally how u feel. You think ur taking baby steps then go back. U just have to stay positive but no one can tell u when ur done.
If u need to take a step back then do so but I think you're being impatient and wanting things to be fixed like magic just like I do. Its not going to happen.
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
I know, none of this is unique, and I know Rob warned me of this.
I think the most unpredictable thing I can do right now is to just go away...
B I N G O
You making this more difficult than it is..
Just silently go away...
WHEN A WOMAN LIKES YOU IN THE RIGHT WAY THEY WILL SEEK YOU OUT.
When they don't like you in the right way, they act like this one acts. Leave her be. Start to go out and interact with the opposite sex. It is very unattractive to a woman when a man keeps trying and trying and trying and she keeps giving him hints that she wants out. Show her you GET IT..
I know, none of this is unique, and I know Rob warned me of this.
I think the most unpredictable thing I can do right now is to just go away...
B I N G O
You making this more difficult than it is..
Just silently go away...
WHEN A WOMAN LIKES YOU IN THE RIGHT WAY THEY WILL SEEK YOU OUT.
When they don't like you in the right way, they act like this one acts. Leave her be. Start to go out and interact with the opposite sex. It is very unattractive to a woman when a man keeps trying and trying and trying and she keeps giving him hints that she wants out. Show her you GET IT..
That is your best chance to turn this around.
Hmmmmmmmm touchel gucci
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
Hey Konfuseeed (love the spelling of your screenname, by the way).
I am going to agree with the guys here saying for you to "silently" go away.
If she wants to be cold and distant, that's her problem. Don't call her 500 times. You ahve already let her know you want to work this marriage out. She knows.
There does seem to be a cloud of mystery around a man who "silently" goes away. Like he pulls and curtain over him and voila... gone like magic.
