I'm glad you were able to sell the guns for what you needed. I hope tht having the fax confimation helps to take care of that, too.
Your H... well, we know he has really serious issues, right? In his head, I think he has to blame you for everything, or it will explode. So, he is more willing to take his chances than to just accept his responsibility for anything. I know it all feels personal, but it's really a lot more about him than it is about you.
Keep your patience and dignity. I think things are going to get better for you if you do that. I really believe that.
