Is it stupid to give up cell phone viewing rights?

[Geomom]

wontquit, I understand the compulsion ... it's so hard not to keep looking at/for evidence of an EA/PA. I'm still working on finding hard proof but have plenty of circumstantial evidence, including a damning Facebook photo obviously taken by the OW (and I can see her reflection in H's mirrored sunglasses -- duh, mirrored sunglasses when you're with an OW!) as well as the address of her workplace on the front of the office building outside the car where they're sitting. I tell you, I look at that photo at least several times a day, zooming in 200-400 percent to see if I can glean any more details from it.

I know it's part torture, but it's also part validation. I can SEE something is not right in this photo, and what I'm seeing is not what H has been telling me are his so-called real problems with me. Somehow, it makes me feel a little better about myself, knowing that.