I understand what you are saying. She actually did call me douchey on Sunday. Am I a douche? no. Have I been acting like one? YES!! I told her about a new video game I was getting (she likes video games), and she wanted to play. I said, "Well I would invite you to come over and play but you don't want to". She later said that she would like to, and perhaps I should be less douchey about it. Yeah.... I have made lots of mistakes. And the "aww shucks, you wouldn't wanna hang out with little old me" insecure needy approach, has not earned me any respect. Go figure! sigh
