Need a Plan for My Marriage

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onthemountaintop,

She is still having the A (which she says, "isn't an affair because our M has been over for along time.")because of the time she comes home and some other intel.

She apologized once, and I sincerely thought we were back on track, but the other time that she admitted the A was just "I am sorry; it is all my fault." That is it. Not good enough for me.

There has been very little remorse from her.

Her cell phone she wants to cancel for two reasons: It is in my name, and I cancelled the TMing and blocked his numbers. Also, she has a work cell phone.