I envy your H.

I still love my XW (or what she used to be) but her dissrespect of me and our marriage and her affair was a deal breaker for me.

At some point in this thing we will all reach our threshold where we have had enough and realize that we deserve better.

Love is a choice. She chose to fall out of love with me.
And she also chose to fall in love with her high school boyfriend from 36 years ago.

And now I CHOSE to go on without her. I have plenty of love to give for somebody new. At 48, life is too short and I told my XW that. Im taking her advice...Im moving on. Her loss.


Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me