I still love my XW (or what she used to be) but her dissrespect of me and our marriage and her affair was a deal breaker for me.
At some point in this thing we will all reach our threshold where we have had enough and realize that we deserve better.
Love is a choice. She chose to fall out of love with me. And she also chose to fall in love with her high school boyfriend from 36 years ago.
And now I CHOSE to go on without her. I have plenty of love to give for somebody new. At 48, life is too short and I told my XW that. Im taking her advice...Im moving on. Her loss.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me