In regard to feelings, I pay attention to "trends". For instance, I noticed after several weeks that my W was less angry toward me. That "trend" continues, so I can begin to trust that.
We may all want our W to give us as much as we give them, but please consider this. One of the MAIN feelings of the WAW is that they give, and give, and give in the relationship and FEEL like they have no more left to give. Their giving tank is on E. This is a very very common thing with WAW. You can help yourself by understanding how your W in particular got that way. In my case, I know EXACTLY what my W is referring to when she says that, and I am intent on correcting that.
Also, I never heard the ILYBNILWY from my W. From what I've read on this board, that can be an indication of OM. Perhaps not PA, but potentially EA to begin with.
