IMH, Forget that XH loser! Stretch marks? You have got to be kidding me!
Some of the sexiest women I know have stretch marks. Is he really that shallow and egotistical?
As far as your H not wanting you, too bad for him. Don't use him or your XH as a guage. There are millions of good single and divorced guys out there that would treat you like a queen and appreciate you (stretch marks and all). I know because Im one of them LOL.
Good luck to you. Just remember, if all falls through there will always be somebody out there for you that will give you what your deserve.
LOL! Funny thing is my XH stayed at my house for a few days a couple of weeks ago. He lives about 1000 miles away but came in to take our D to her father/daughter dance. During our surpisingly comfortable visit he THANKED me. He said that he treated women like [censored] and if it weren't for me setting him straight and not putting up with it then he might still be that way.
As for my H....I love him and right now I can't even fathom being with another man....sigh.....
