IMH, Forget that XH loser! Stretch marks? You have got to be kidding me!
Some of the sexiest women I know have stretch marks. Is he really that shallow and egotistical?
As far as your H not wanting you, too bad for him. Don't use him or your XH as a guage. There are millions of good single and divorced guys out there that would treat you like a queen and appreciate you (stretch marks and all). I know because Im one of them LOL.
Good luck to you. Just remember, if all falls through there will always be somebody out there for you that will give you what your deserve.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me