Took my wife for granted, now she is done. help!

[cesco]

I am at the exact same spot right now.
I ask myself the question. If she told me today that she wants to work it out how do I trust her feelings towards me when for recent months I got the ilybnilwy? How do you look past this ?
I think we all want our W to give as much as we give them.
They want to leave, as it seems they all do. We can hold them against their wishes. As Robx, Steve, gucci and others have said you must follow reality if you are going to have a chance.
As I have been told many times and now starting to believe. If it's meant to be it will be. If she is meant to be with you it will happen. Nothing you do right now will change thier mind. They need to follow the path in which they want.