I am in my second marriage. My XH I left...he wanted desperately to work things out, but he had hurt me too bad (and 9 years later he still tells me he loves me). But, the thing is he told me several times that no one would want me ever...I would be a single mother, I have strech marks from being pregnant, yada, yada. I now know that he only said these things out of fear.
My H has never said that he didn't think anyone would ever want me again....because I KNOW he knows that isn't true. He just doesn't want me frown For now that is....