I would love that! But my main concern is that she will only want to work towards finalizing her decision to D. I'm just not sure, the new decision date is 6/18/10. I would like to eventually seek MC with her, but I'm not sure I should yet. Would it hurt to ask on Sunday? Or could that be considered persuing? She has just given me so much mixed information, sometimes it "If you would have made these changes 1yr ago", then it's 6 months ago, then it's 3 months ago. From what I have seen from her, she is trying to talk herself into this. I have snooped before, and I have seen her telling friends only bad things about me, even making things up (saying I'm not a believer when I absolutely AM), it seems that she is just seeking a negative response to reinforce what she thinks she should do. And when I bring up the R, she just gets pushed further away.
