He's doing what I expected him to do, start trying to break her darkness. Mila, I THINK I told you he might try this...I don't remember if I did.
Mila, do NOT answer him, you've ALREADY told him NOT to contact you b/c of what's happening with OW....you made it VERY clear you didn't want him contacting you.
Do NOT answer him...let him figure out what's going on at this point; he KNOWS what's going on, you do NOT have to spell this out for him AGAIN.
My husband, believe it or not did the SAME thing; tried to act like nothing was going on...I made the mistake of trying to explain AGAIN, and he blew up...didn't stop me, though; I kept leaving the rooms as he was entering them, would NOT having anything to do with him...and the trying to get rid of OW business actually speeded up because he got really scared he would lose ME.
Wait and watch, you WILL know if OW goes south or not.
Hang on Girl, you CAN DO THIS. He has to know you mean business....he's TESTING you to see what your weak points are.
Don't let him break through.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
