Yeah, wow, I can't believe she ever called you friend. Wow.
I already said on BD's thread that I feel a similar way about my WH being in the room with me- don't want him there because it will taint his vision of me forever. But I think my WH just has an issue with mothers and birthing. Seriously. I don't think most guys have those issues. So maybe just decide as it happens.
I think it's really good that you guys kept your conversation friendly. You have to navigate this time well, and I think friendliness is the high road.
