You let your H decorate the place too??? I kind of did as well!
The road to piecing will be hard but like you said, everyone has areas to improve in their relationship so it will just be an opportunity.
Some people live peacefully avoiding issues in their R! My therapist told me that there is something with the way the couple handles conflict-if one is an aggressor and the other is conflict avoidant, not so good. If both are aggressors not so good. BUt if both are conflict avoidant (or comfortable with conflict) then they get along with each other! (based on the research he reads)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
