Anyone ever wonder?

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I was at a female friends house (not a GF) when my XW called me. She has her own evil ring tone.

My friend wanted to answer with "sorry he is in the shower". I told her not to.

A week later I found out my XW has been in fact having an affair for months if not years while we were still married and before she even dropped the bomb. She lied, big surprise right?

Now I wish I did let my friend answer my phone. But I have zero contact with my XW now so I missed my chance at having a little twisted fun with her LOL.

Yes, other people will want us. Women usually have much more success getting dates but sadly it's because there are a lot of guys out there that only want one thing and they prey on the weak (recently divoreced etc.)

For us divorced guys it's a pain to date as most women tend to avoid us because of the percieved baggage that we may have. But there's still hope.

I look at it this way, I have experience as a husband and father and my divorce has made me even better at being a good mate for somebody new. It's not baggage, it's hard lessons learned that are beneficial. Am I wrong?

Anyway, I am currently dating one woman who is also divorced. We are taking it slow. Nothing serious. Just friends that like to hang out with each other and bitch about their divorces LOL.

Wish me luck.