Hey there DLS, that means mediation right? Currently we are on limited contact. Email for important information only. I have not read DB yet but my book should be here tomorrow, I have read the boards all day at work today (I still got my job done though . Do you think I should ask for that now? I'm seeing her Sunday again to get more stuff, my intention was to not discuss R at all for now(easier sd than done). And I agree, it's impossible to tell where her head is at, I had to stop trying because I became borderline suicidal after she told me she wanted D and didn't need anymore time (but not in fron of her). I am seeking IC as is she, and I'm seeking it for my son as well. Trying to figure her out right now, just isn't working. My current approach... figure myself out! Sorry, as my first post was so long, I will be sharing more info, but those are the highlights. So do you think MD? Or give her more time to sort out where her heads at? IMO, when you have no idea what you want to do with your life, perhaps D shouldn't exactly be on the table! I appreciate your insight DLS! Open to all suggestions as of now!
. Do you think I should ask for that now? I'm seeing her Sunday again to get more stuff, my intention was to not discuss R at all for now(easier sd than done). And I agree, it's impossible to tell where her head is at, I had to stop trying because I became borderline suicidal after she told me she wanted D and didn't need anymore time (but not in fron of her). I am seeking IC as is she, and I'm seeking it for my son as well. Trying to figure her out right now, just isn't working. My current approach... figure myself out! Sorry, as my first post was so long, I will be sharing more info, but those are the highlights. So do you think MD? Or give her more time to sort out where her heads at? IMO, when you have no idea what you want to do with your life, perhaps D shouldn't exactly be on the table! I appreciate your insight DLS! Open to all suggestions as of now!