about mother versus hot babe...am pretty sure you will only want to be thought of as mother for the first couple of months (even if you were happily married) and then somewhere between 3-6 months post birth, you will get your mojo back! I am sorry this is based on me and my friends. Actually because I was DBing, I started doing my hair and make up and NOT wearing sweats all day and looking like a "mom" around October.

Now I want to look like a MILF! (lol! not slutty! but I want people to say "wow, you have a baby? I had no idea!"
So that is how I am dressing these days.

And doing your hair and make up (sorry, if you do that kind of thing) really helps your mood!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004