I think I am not qualified to help you! But I will tell you that they ALL say it's over- that is what makes us sign on to this forum! Some take months or years to divorce or reconcile....
I don't think your H knows what he wants.

you might want to check out the MLC forum and also PEI Mom's thread that says "read this book!" it is about a woman whose H was going through an MLC and she never pressured him to come back home and acted as if he would be returning but was just temporarily going through something....look for PEI mom's thread under newcomers.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004