still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

WH knocked on the door instead of coming in...that was a first.What was funny is that I was just thinking to myself, should I change the locks yet? Or do I care?

I just informed him very very briefly that S had a bottle not too long ago and then he asked about swim class tomorrow. I told him that he doesn't have to go on Wed0 I will still take him twice per week. He said tomorrow he would skip it but that he would still like to take him in the future. He tried to start a conversation about how S loves swim class. I just said "yeah! Okay, bye bye baby!" and the whole time I handed him S, I handed him the bag and his mail, I walked them to the door!!

So I can't help but be curious about the swim class...as to how he is going to manage to drive all the way out here (40-45 minutes away), then have to go all the way back to her place and then come back here! Here is what it would look like:
leave her place at 10:30 (wake S up if he is sleeping)
leave swimming and get to her place at 12:45
feed S
leave her place and then come back here by 2

I am suspicious....I think he does not want to be at her place alone! I swear! I think it's because he has not officially moved in with her- heck his address is still this place.

And I also think he is going to come up with some brilliant idea to bring S back to the house after swimming, feed him, and then do some yard work since he is now the landlord of the house.

Man oh man, why does he have to make this sooo f-ing complicated?

Ok I am mind reading and trying to predict the future. But WH is one of those dumb intelligent guys, meaning he is dumb for what he is doing, but he is intellectually smart. Very.