Allen, thank you so much for the advice. I think I've been concentrating so hard on GAL and being the positive happy person that H would be attracted too. I didn't even think about how that might convince him that I would be better off D.
I think you are letting MY anxiety get to you! You are doing great! Keep GALing, being positive. Think calm, stable, safe. cool, detached. I love Allen's retorts. I'm gonna file them in my head!
I am planning on NC for the next couple of weeks, and that will really help my mental state.
It really will help you gain perspective.
One other thing, he has been calling me more to ask questions about kids or bills instead of texting like he was before. However the last couple of days I haven't answered and then instead of calling him back I've been texting him back.
Good Job! Maybe he is curious about your new behavior. Let him wonder as much as possible b/c maybe he now thinks you are Ok with his behavior. It is hard to remind him you are not, while not bashing him over the head with it and seemingly in pursuit! Allen, I wish i knew what the "stare" looked like!
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
