Pam, I really would love to hear your positives every day,too.

Also, can you TRY to start going out a bit more, dear? Could you take a class or go swimming or get a gal pal and go to the movies at least once a week? I have forced myself to get out and do more and it works wonders! Not only am I happier (cept when off meds and fighting depression) but I am more attractive to H. He finds me more interesting and appealing when I have fun,interesting tales of my daily outings to talk about with him....instead of me talking about R and gloom and doom feelings. When I am depressed...I am also depressing! LOL

So, positives and I really really want you to tell us one thing you went out and did for just Pam once a week! Can you do that?

And, Sage, I'll post it here...but I'm with you if you start the db'ing chapter by chapter thread....sounds great.


I am responsible for my own happiness.