Hi Laurie!
It's good to hear from you! Thanks for checking in. I don't know if you've been able to catch up, but I did hire a L in Sept. and after much back & forth the separarion agrmt is being finalized.

I am moving out of the house to my brother's and taking our 2 dogs with me. H let me know he didn't care. I should be fully moved this weekend.

I think, but not sure, you know that I believed H moved in w OW in Oct. due to charges I saw on our bank accts. Well in March he emailed me that he was moving into our apt. (above garage) and sure enough, he's in there now. But I still haven't spoken to him or seen him. Except for a few short emails, we are in NC.

H is about as done as he can be. So I am trying to work on me. I am going to an IC, who I like. Try to GAL but probably need to do more.

Thanks for the nice words. I try to give support when I can. I still don't feel very wise but I want to help if I feel there's something I can pass along. usually it's just support. This board has been an amazing support for me and I really don't know what/how I'd be getting along now without it.

And I hope you're doing well - how are things going? Even though I couldn't DB successfully please know that my sessions with you got me through some of the toughest times of my life. You do great work so thank you for fighting for us all! ((((Laurie))))