mb,
It is so hard to know. Totally dark was so much easier, which is why I encouraged it for you! Now that I have myself under control, I wonder how do I interact w/h. Polite, cordial easy enough. When he brings up our R, it is easy enough to deflect.
I do not initiate anything, take calls only if I know why he is calling, otherwise it goes to VM and I respond depending on the importance of the matter.

He called again just now, and I picked up b/c he is picking DS up at school. He got him ok and was wondering when he had to be at his game. I told him twice and again in the email that included the directions to the school and the field. (He couldn't remember where these places were.???) Then He wanted to know if I was going to the game (duh.??) He would see me there. Great. shoot. This is getting too stressful. Not emotional stress, I don't think...just tension...like what's next... Why all of a sudden.....I think I want to go back into hiding but I am so dang curious!...




"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!"
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