Nah, you're not a sap. Your brain is on straight, her's at the moment is not.

FWIW, I'm even inclined to wonder when my H went head first off the rails, if there wasn't an OTC supplement helping him stay squirrelly. Some "hard core" whatever from one of those muscle puffer places. He wasn't the same person, at all. It was one of the "things" that I required him to give up, if he wanted me back.

Depression on the other hand is such a tricky thing,... that said,... she's not going to find the massive happiness on the other side of the fence. That's a bonus on your side,... she's going to have that reality. Can't recall, but does she do therapy?

Abbey

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.