Allen, thank you so much for the advice. I think I've been concentrating so hard on GAL and being the positive happy person that H would be attracted too. I didn't even think about how that might convince him that I would be better off D.
I am planning on NC for the next couple of weeks, and that will really help my mental state.
One other thing, he has been calling me more to ask questions about kids or bills instead of texting like he was before. However the last couple of days I haven't answered and then instead of calling him back I've been texting him back.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10