Quote: I think, not sure I guess, that he knows how much I think of him and respect his opinions and how happy he makes me when he participates in our R.
when someone is constantly saying they aren't happy and that this isn't enough and saying I might as well call an atty they aren't sending a very clear message that they love and want to be with that person are they?
I understand your plight, if you've ever read my threads you know I do.
Thing is I find when I sit back and relax and let h just be...even if that means he's tired and goes to sleep early (like he has tonight) he is more present...more interested in me.
can you make a commitment to working on the r? can you make a commitment to not mention atty's or d for at least 6 months? can you make a commitment to list some positives each day even if they don't relate to your r with david? can you make a commitment to listening instead of talking? can you make a commitment to being the sole individual responsible for your pma? can you make a commitment to not let pms get the best of you? ( we all get that way hon, doesn't have to be pms..for me it can be kid freak out day, or rainy day, or crappy hair day) and NOT make it david's responsibility.
here's something I realized during my seperation....I depended way to much on h to make me feel good about me. That is a heavy burden to place on anyone. You need to feel good about you first that means believing the positive things I said about you! or heck be silly (lord knows I am, sometimes it's what get's me through the day) look in the mirror (yes here it comes the sat night live skit) and say "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and gosh darn it people like me"
