I'm taking off my ring April 9

[AmyBel]

I'm starting to wonder if I even belong on this forum. W is carrying on (physical) love affair with OW. (I made it clear that during our trial separation we would act "not married" e.g. no 'marriage rules'. But both counselor and I made it clear that spending time with another love interest would invalidate the purpose of a trial separation.)

W's requested deadline was June 9. I would be a fool to think she'll be ready to reconcile by then.

I also have no way to earn income in our home town (original plan was to become a stay-at-home-mom... thankfully, I stopped adoption process) so must relocate in order to keep body and soul together.

So my concerns are now turning to finding a job in June, protecting my possessions and bank account, avoiding things turning acrimonious and more painful than necessary.

And wondering if there is a way to keep a door open, while doing grieving. (<begin sarcasm> Happy wedding anniversary to me, may 2 <end sarcasm>)

Thanks for asking.