Can you see the Morning After

[psluke]

Sage Pam -- I used to complain a lot that my h never talked to me. Then the bomb dropped, I found DB and because I didn't have ANY CLUE what to say or do I stopped talking -- not in a giant, mopey, sulky way but in a I'm just gonna quiet down, say A LOT less than I want and see if I can regroup.

You know what happened?

The man finally had some space in which to talk.
And talk he did.

Cupcake Pam, I don't know if this will help you and David's situation, but I just want to throw out ideas for you that have helped me. Again, NOT a quick fix. No initiation of contact for a long period of time. He will begin to wonder what's up with Pam...why isn't she calling or IM'ing me? Maybe I better calll....then when he does call, you are happy, great, good to hear from you, ok...gotta run...that kind of stuff. That will be more appealing to him and keep him coming back for more - after all, it worked once, didn't it (he married you!).


My dear friend...please take these comments to heart. They are wise and will benefit you greatly.

Hi Jeannine,

Really glad to see you again! I am trying to open my mind more, sometimes it is closed at first reading I have discovered and I need to read more than once for it to soak in and take root.

Working on it!