Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

[newmama]

good one- DETACH left you a text message. Missed call from DETACH. Who's calling? Oh- it's DETACH! LMAO!

read this whole thing before reacting: I am rolling my eyes and gagging myself though when I read that your H said he misses you guys and wishes you went to counseling when you were distant. BECAUSE it's like he is saying "it's too late now-there was a window and alas, it has been shut and can never be open again."

It also gives me hope because you are about the shock and surprise him with your caring but not pursuing attitude and seriously do not contact him first, hang up first, be busy, and just act as if he is your friendly neighbor who got you pregnant. Avoid hugging him, leaning on him, kissing him, referencing history together...I mean it. BECAUSE you just may be able to create that opposite reaction from him- you know, you pull away, he comes forward! I am excited for you! But no expectations.