We would have never believed it if anyone ever tried to tell us such strange things would pass our way.
I think your H probably sits in front of a video game a lot with no one left to yell at, and tries very hard not to think about his life. He sounds like he has ruled out putting any effort into a D, at least for now.
Not sure a card would stir him up much. Not sure a Space Shuttle sized blender would either. He sounds like he is just too checked out to invest much energy in his life, much less anyone else's.
Leaving you didn't solve his problems. Having the OW sure didn't work out. Maybe the video game will keep him warm. As for that piece you feel is missing from your life, don't forget that he couldn't possible fit into your life very easily right now.
That hole he left has changed shapes as you have changed and become someone better.
He is not the same shape he used to be. Besides the few pounds he put on, he'll eventually have to work on changing things about himself in order to fit the current void in your life. You would not like the person you would have to become to accomodate the new him. Imagine playing Twister with double vision.
"RRiigghhtt HHaanndd - BBlluuee" ... You wouldn't know where to begin. I think he has to continue his journey a while, no matter how that ends.
I think he has to continue his journey a while, no matter how that ends.
